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Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Behavioral & Mood Disorders in Toddlers

It seems as though more and more children are being diagnosed with different types of behavioral & mood disorders these days! It has been something that I have had on my mind for quite some time now and since I work in a daycare, I have done numerous amounts of research on these different disorders.  During my research I have come to realize there are a lot more different disorders than I thought! 

 The most common Behavioral & Mood Disorders:
  • Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD)
  • Conduct Disorder
  • Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)
  • Bi-polar Disorder

Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD)


Surprisingly, 1 in 10 children who are under 12 years old are diagnosed with ODD.  It is hard to diagnose, because all children experience episodes of defiance at one point or another.  However, when the behavior stands out far beyond the other children in the classroom it is cause for concern.  When there is an ongoing pattern of uncooperative, defiant, or hostile behavior toward teachers, parents, or others in authority, this is a cause for concern and parents should seek help immediately. 

Symptoms of ODD in Children:
  • Frequent temper tantrums
  • Excessive arguing with adults
  • Often questioning rules
  • Active defiance and refusal to comply with adult requests and rules
  • Deliberate attempts to annoy or upset people
  • Blaming others for his or her mistakes or misbehavior
  • Often being touchy or easily annoyed by others
  • Frequent anger and resentment
  • Mean and hateful talking when upset
  • Spiteful attitude and revenge seeking
These symptoms are seen in multiple different settings, but mostly at home and a school.  The cause of ODD is unknown.

To help a child with ODD, try the following things.
  • Always build on the positives, give the child praise and positive reinforcement when he shows flexibility or cooperation.
  • Take a time-out or break if you are about to make the conflict with your child worse, not better.  This is good modeling for your child.  Support your child if he decides to take a time-out to prevent overreacting.
  • Pick your battles.  Since the child with ODD has trouble avoiding power struggles, prioritize the things you want your child to do.  If you give your child a time-out in his room for misbehavior, don’t add time for arguing.  Say “your time will start when you go to your room.”
  • Set up reasonable, age appropriate limits with consequences that can be enforced consistently.
  • Maintain interests other than your child with ODD, so that managing your child doesn’t take all your time and energy.  Try to work with and obtain support from the other adults (teachers, coaches, and spouse) dealing with your child.
  • Manage your own stress with healthy life choices such as exercise and relaxation.  Use respite care and other breaks as needed

Conduct Disorder 

Children who have conduct disorder have a problem following rules and behaving in a socially acceptable way.  The cause of conduct disorder includes brain damage, child abuse or neglect, genetic vulnerability, school failure, and traumatic life experiences.

Symptoms of Conduct Disorder:
  • Bullies, threatens, or intimidates others
  • Often initiates physical fights
  • Has used a weapon that could cause serious physical harm to others
  • Physically cruel to people or animals
  • Steals from a victim while confronting them (e.g. assault)
  • Forces someone into sexual activity 
  • deliberately destroys other's property
  • Has broken into someone else's building, house, or car
  • Lies to obtain goods, or favors or to avoid obligations
  • Steals items without confronting a victim (e.g. shoplifting, but without breaking and entering) 
  • Often stays out at night despite parental objections
  • Runs away from home
  • Often truant from school 
"Treatment of children with conduct disorder can be complex and challenging. Treatment can be provided in a variety of different settings depending on the severity of the behaviors. Adding to the challenge of treatment are the child's uncooperative attitude, fear and distrust of adults. In developing a comprehensive treatment plan, a child and adolescent psychiatrist may use information from the child, family, teachers, community (including the legal system) and other medical specialties to understand the causes of the disorder.

Behavior therapy and psychotherapy are usually necessary to help the child appropriately express and control anger. Special education may be needed for youngsters with learning disabilities. Parents often need expert assistance in devising and carrying out special management and educational programs in the home and at school. Home-based treatment programs such as Multisystemic Therapy are effective for helping both the child and family.Treatment may also include medication in some youngsters, such as those with difficulty paying attention, impulse problems, or those with depression."
(This information is from http://www.aacap.org/cs/root/facts_for_families/conduct_disorder)

Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) 

Children with ADHD have a problem with inattentiveness, over-activity, impulsivity, or a combination of these.  ADHD is the most commonly diagnosed disorder in children (3%-5% of children).  The cause of ADHD is unknown; however, it does run in families.  There are 3 different categories of symptoms for ADHD.   

1. Inattentive symptoms:
  • Fails to give close attention to details or makes careless mistakes in schoolwork
  • Has difficulty keeping attention during tasks or play
  • Does not seem to listen when spoken to directly
  • Does not follow through on instructions and fails to finish schoolwork, chores, or duties in the workplace
  • Has difficulty organizing tasks and activities
  • Avoids or dislikes tasks that require sustained mental effort (such as schoolwork)
  • Often loses toys, assignments, pencils, books, or tools needed for tasks or activities
  • Is easily distracted
  • Is often forgetful in daily activities
 2. Hyperactivity symptoms:

  • Fidgets with hands or feet or squirms in seat
  • Leaves seat when remaining seated is expected
  • Runs about or climbs in inappropriate situations
  • Has difficulty playing quietly
  • Is often "on the go," acts as if "driven by a motor," talks excessively
3. Impulsivity symptoms:
  • Blurts out answers before questions have been completed
  • Has difficulty awaiting turn
  • Interrupts or intrudes on others (butts into conversations or games) 
Some children are incorrectly labeled with ADHD. On the other hand, many children who do have ADHD remain undiagnosed.  These are guidelines from the American Academy of Pediatrics for the diagnosis of ADHD. 
  • Children should have at least 6 attention symptoms or 6 hyperactivity/impulsivity symptoms, with some symptoms present before age 7.
  • The symptoms must be present for at least 6 months, seen in two or more settings, and not caused by another problem.
  • The symptoms must be severe enough to cause significant difficulties in many settings, including home, school, and in relationships with peers.
Here some ways (other an medication) to help your child with ADHD.
  • Set specific, appropriate target goals to guide therapy.
  • Start medication and behavior therapy.
  • Follow-up regularly with the doctor to check on goals, results, and any side effects of medications. During these check-ups, information should be gathered from parents, teachers, and the child.
  • Communicate regularly with the child's teacher.
  • Keep a consistent daily schedule, including regular times for homework, meals, and outdoor activities. Make changes to the schedule in advance and not at the last moment.
  • Limit distractions in the child's environment.
  • Make sure the child gets a healthy, varied diet, with plenty of fiber and basic nutrients.
  • Make sure the child gets enough sleep.
  • Praise and reward good behavior.
  • Provide clear and consistent rules for the child.

Bi-Polar Disorder

This is something very near and dear to my heart as I have done a whole lot of research on this, because someone I know has a child with bi-polar disorder.  Bi-polar I is when a child experiences at least one episode of mania.  (For an episode to qualify as mania, there must be elevated mood plus at least three other symptoms, or irritable mood plus at least four other symptoms.)

Mania Symptoms:
  • elevated mood - silliness or elation that is inappropriate and impairing
  • grandiosity - unrealistic sense of superiority
  • flight of ideas or racing thoughts
  • more talkative than usual or pressure to keep talking
  • irritability or hostility when demands are not met
  • excessive distractibility
  • decreased need for sleep without daytime fatigue
  • excessive involvement in pleasurable but risky activities (daredevil acts)
  • poor judgment
  • hallucinations and psychosis
Depression Symptoms:
  • lack of joy and pleasure in life
  • withdrawal from activities formerly enjoyed 
  • agitation and irritability
  • pervasive sadness and/or crying spells
  • sleeping too much or inability to sleep
  • inability to concentrate
  • thoughts of death and suicide
  • fatigue or loss of energy
  • feelings of worthlessness
  • significant change in appetite
An episode must last at least one week and stable periods occur between episodes of mania and depression.

This is taken straight from thebalancedmind.org.  I think it is a wonderful checklist and can help identify if your child may have bi-polar disorder.

Since its founding in 1999, The Balanced Mind Foundation has reviewed numerous family accounts that repeatedly report similar behaviors. If your child exhibits more than a few of these behaviors and you know something is wrong, follow through with our First Steps plan. This is especially crucial if there is a history of mood disorders or substance abuse in your child's family.

  Severe and recurring depression
  Explosive, destructive or lengthy rages, especially after the age of four
  Extreme sadness or lack of interest in play
  Severe separation anxiety
  Talk of wanting to die or kill themselves or others
  Dangerous behaviors, such as trying to jump from a fast moving car or a roof
  Grandiose belief in own abilities that defy the laws of logic (possessing ability to
       fly)
  Sexualized behavior unusual for the child’s age
  Impulsive aggression
  Delusional beliefs and hallucinations
  Extreme hostility
  Extreme or persistent irritability
  Telling teachers how to teach the class, bossing adults around
  Creativity that seems driven or compulsive
  Excessive involvement in multiple projects and activities
  Compulsive craving for certain objects or foods
  Hearing voices telling them to take harmful action
  Racing thoughts, pressure to keep talking
  Sleep disturbances, including gory nightmares or not sleeping very much
  Drawings or stories with extremely graphic violence

 To read more, go to http://www.thebalancedmind.org/learn/library/about-pediatric-bipolar-disorder?page=all

Causes of Bi-Polar Disorder:

Bi-polar disorder tends to be genetic, meaning it runs in the family.  Over half of the children who have bi-polar disorder have a family member (usually a mom or dad or both) who suffer from a mood disorder, usually depression or bi-polar disorder.  A child who has one parent with bipolar disorder has a 15% to 25% chance of having the disorder.  A child who has 2 parents with a mood disorder has a 50% or higher chance of having a mood disorder. 

If you suspect your child has any of these disorders, it is necessary to talk to your child's doctor.  If these are treated at an early age, it is much easier overcome the battle later in life!!







Rude Behavior in Business

I have witnessed way too much rude behavior and smart a** comments made by employees to other employees in my day. Personally, I don't think that is very business appropriate. I guess being a business student I have learned a lot about how to run a successful business and just find the rudeness between a boss and an employee or 2 employees to be a very negative thing for a business. First of all, I would not want to work in a place where my boss or other employees are rude to me or smarts off to me. It is not a very healthy working environment. Secondly, I do NOT want to be put down or feel like I just asked a stupid question. If you can't put on a happy face for 8 hours while you are at work, then you shouldn't be working anywhere dealing with the public. Another thing that pushes my button to no end is when an employee openly talks to other employees or even customers about how much they hate their job and that they need to find a new job. That is not a good thing for a business, especially a new business that has just opened. So if you want to draw customers to your business, you should First: Be nice to customers and other employees. Don't be rude and or get an attitude with them. Second: Put on a happy face, at least while others are around. Third: Don't run your mouth about how your hate your job to customers or other employees. You want to draw people to your company/business not make them go running away as fast as they can. Remember: Customers bring in CASH MONEY, and that is what ALL businesses main goal is: TO MAKE A PROFIT. But you can't make a profit if you are rude to customers.

Monday, May 7, 2012

"Train Up a Child in the Way He Should Go..."

"...And when he is old, he will not depart from it." - Proverbs 22:6 Yesterday I had the pleasure of being a part of my precious little Graison's baby dedication. Graison was born the day after Thanksgiving in 2011, and when I first saw him, the tears started flowing and wouldn't stop!
He was the most beautiful baby I have ever laid eyes on. I loved him from the second I got the phone call from my best friend telling me that she was pregnant. I loved him for 40 weeks before he was born, and I didn't realize how much I loved him until I laid eyes on him for the first time. He was so cute, cuddly, and just down right lovable! I couldn't keep my eyes, or my hands off him...and neither could Kip! He didn't want to give him up!
It broke my heart to leave him on Saturday, but Kip & I were going to the Alabama/Auburn football game. I was checking my phone every few seconds to see if I had a new picture of lil man sent to me (I was waiting on the picture of him in his Alabama/Auburn outfit I bought him). I finally got the picture and I teared up when I saw it! He looked so cute!
The next few weeks, I was at Jillian's at least 2 days a week to love on that little boy! And MY MY MY how time flies. He is ALREADY 5 months old and growing like a weed! And of course he LOVES his LaLa (yes that would be me! :] ) and his Kip too...I think he loves his Kip more than me sometimes and that makes me sad! :( He would PITCH A FIT if Kip gave him to someone else or put him down one night when we cooked out with Clai and Jillian.
He definitely stole his LaLa's heart from the day I laid eyes on him! Yesterday, Clai and Jillian submitted Graison to God's will and pledged to raise Graison up in God's Word and God's Ways. They made a promise to the Lord to do everything within their power to raise Graison in a Godly way until he can make his own decision to follow God. Graison has AWESOME parents that I absolutely love with all my heart and who are a man and a woman after God's own heart. They are wonderful parents to that sweet angel and will always be. I long for the day that Graison accepts Jesus into his heart! The tears will once again flow like they did the first time I saw that precious face! I am so thankful that I got to share that special day in Graison & Clai & Jillian's, life yesterday. I love their family like my own! Here are some pictures of precious Graison's little life!
I love this little boy so much and I am so thankful that Jillian has allowed me to be a part of his life! I cannot wait to continue to watch him grow up! Graison...Your LaLa loves you more than you will ever know and I cannot wait to see the MAN that you will become one day! I love you sweet baby!